went to my mother-in-laws today with my partner and got anbushed,things have been a little strained between my partner and me the last few weeks,we havent been talking that much and ive been going through a lot of shit.but today when i went up to my partners parents house he brought the whole subject up.
It resulted in a massive argument and me getting very upset,i realise its had for him to talk to me sometimes but this was like betrail!they are bias they only see things from his point of view.I do not have the luxury of parents i can count on like my partner,for the last 10 years i have put up with and helped him manage his bi-polar disorder and stood by his side,but the first time i have a problem its everyone attack!
maybe im just sounding off here but all i want is some peace and a little understanding,and a partner whos by my side not on my back twisting the knife in!
you poor love! Sounds rather cowardly of your partner to bring up your problems in front of his parents - 3 against 1 and not on your own territory. Must be very difficult living with someone with bi-polar disorder. Sounds like you need to sit with yourself and give yourself something love sympathy and understanding and listen to yourself too. Imagine it was a very close much loved friend who was in your place and you were listening to her talk. What would you advise her? Would you think your friend was having a tough time? Do something nice for yourself - treat yourself to something you would really like to do or have that you can actually do/afford and get some nourishment. I wish I could think of something that would help. All the best though and I hope things get better. Its really hard when you feel you have no support - very hard.